Germany is one of my favorite places to go! It could be due to my genealogy or the fact that my parents live there right now, but it never ceases to amaze me. I love the historical castles like Neuschwanstein and all the yummy food!
If you are planning to travel to Germany, there are several things you might want to know about. Yes, Germany is very modern and has been more “Americanized” over the years, but it is still in Europe and takes pride its own culture and customs, as it should.
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The list below comprises 18 facts I believe you should know before going to Germany, especially with kids. They mainly come from my American parents who live there and my husband who has only visited once. I hope you find them helpful on your next European vacation!
Covid-19 Note: During the current conditions of Covid-19, Germany is in a strict lockdown until at least the end of February.
#1: The Autobahn Has Rules
If you’re reading this, I assume you already know what the Autobahn is. It’s famous for being a highway with no speed limit. It was actually created by Adolf Hitler as a way for his troops to move faster. Now, it’s used as a normal highway to get from city to city.
If you read that there is no speed limit and thought that means you can finally be that racecar driver you’ve always dreamed of, you might want to rein that in a bit. The Autobahn has certain laws in place to keep everyone safe.
For instance, many areas of the Autobahn now have a speed limit. There is also a standard of changing lanes if you see someone coming up behind you that is driving faster than you.
Pro Tip: There are speed cameras in Germany and they will catch you going just one mile (six kilometers) over the speed limit. Be careful!
#2: Cars (& Parking) are Small
You know those funny European movies that always have tiny cars? Well, they’re not just in the movies. While we were there over Christmas 2019, my parents rented an 8-seater van. It was the biggest thing on the road and it was nothing compared to American vans!
If you plan to rent a vehicle in Germany, be aware that it might be smaller than you’re used to. That includes the trunk space. You’ll have to get creative with how you arrange your luggage and strollers, etc.
Another thing to note is that due to the small cars, parking spaces are also smaller. Most of the public parking is in garages too, so be ready to make tight turns around the place.
#3: They Prefer Manual Cars
If you don’t know how to drive a stick shift, you might want to learn now. Most of the cars in Germany (and Europe in general) are manuals.
In fact, my brother first learned how to drive a stick shift during a family vacation to Germany when we were teenagers. It might be fun for your teenagers too! Just be careful how fast you let them go on the Autobahn 🙂
If you plan to rent a car while in Germany, make sure you notice whether it is manual or not. Some companies have an automatic option, but you have to look for it.
#4: Streets are Narrow
This reason alone is why I still haven’t driven in Germany. I don’t trust myself that much! The streets in Germany are very, very, (I mean VERY) narrow. Many of them, especially in the smaller towns, have roads that would look like a one-way to us Americans. However, if there are no signs signifying otherwise, they are meant as a two-lane road.
The general rule is that if you see another car coming in the opposite direction, one of you is supposed to pull over if you can. And yes, that may mean you jump onto the sidewalk.
#5: They Don’t Use Cardinal Directions
Cardinal directions are what we are used to in the states: north, south, east, and west. In Germany, however, they simply point to the city you are heading towards.
For example, if you were on the Autobahn and you see that the road is splitting, you would see signs directing you to either Wiesbaden or Mainz, rather than North or South.
It is definitely a good idea to have your Google Maps out just in case.
#6: No Turn on Red
This one is pretty self explanatory. If there is a red light, you are not allowed to turn right. So remember, no turn on red!
Driving Note: Although Germany has public transportation available like buses and a metro, it is much easier to travel by car. Be sure to look up all the driving rules and signs in Germany before going. Don’t forget your International Drivers License too!
#7: You Will Walk. A Lot.
Unless you’re the type of traveler who prefers to stay in your hotel all day, be prepared to walk. You will walk to the restaurant or store because there isn’t really curb-side available. Most of the big castles and historical ruins are a bit far from roads in the first place.
If you’re planning to go to the Neuschwanstein Castle in Schwangau, you should know that they don’t allow cars to pull up at the gates. Your only options for ascending the mountain are to walk or take a horse-drawn carriage.
#8: Take a Stroller If You Dare
In full honesty, we use strollers with our kids. And yes, we still used them in Germany. However, most of the streets are cobblestone which means it can be a rocky and bumpy road.
Additionally, because many of the buildings are old, they don’t have elevators. You will walk over a lot of cobblestone to get to your destination that you then have to climb up a lot of stairs for. On top of that, the stairs could be unlevel due to age and weather.
Fortunately, there are many places (like Neuschwanstein or Porta Nigra in Trier) that are used to tourists and have special places to set aside your stroller before entering. From that point on though, you will have to carry your babies.
#9: Sprechen Sie Deutsch?
I believe this rule applies if you are visiting any place that doesn’t speak English. Learn their language!
You obviously don’t need to be fluent in it, but it would be very helpful to know certain phrases like “Where’s the bathroom” (Wo ist die Toilette?) and “How much does this cost” (Wieviel kostet das?) Hopefully you can understand their reply!
There are many resources to help you learn a language, but finding a good app and having a mini dictionary on hand are my favorites.
#10: German Isn’t All the Same
Just because you are learning some German, doesn’t mean that you will get by everywhere you go. Germany has its own dialects as does America (pop vs soda anyone?).
Not only does it sound better to the German locals, but you would show them that you cared enough to do your research. Trust me, they will love it!
Pro Tip: If you know you will stay in the more mainland or northern part of Germany, you can say “Guten Tag” (Good day) and you will be fine. However, if you will be in the southern part of Germany, aka Bavaria, you should use their terminology and say “Grüss Gott” instead.
#11: Currency Exchange Rate
Again, this is one that you should know before visiting any different country. In Germany, they use Euros.
It’s very helpful to know when you’re in a store and want to buy something. I don’t want you to be shocked when you see your bank account later and realize it was more expensive than you thought!
We also like to give Parker, our two year old, cash to pay for a little something himself. Make sure it’s the right amount!
#12: Don’t Buy Souvenirs Right Away
Souvenirs are something I think everyone should grab whenever they’re on vacation. I personally like to collect playing cards when I’m in a new place. We also bought a Christmas ornament and mug.
I don’t know how you are with traveling, but you may have a tendency to buy the first (and all) souvenirs you see. And yes, I’m well aware that Germany has some awesome souvenirs like beer steins (for root beer!), lederhosens for the kids, and chocolate 🙂
What I recommend is to wait until you’ve been to several different shops before purchasing. That will give you a feel for how the pricing is and how good the quality can be.
#13: Business Hours
This is very important to look up ahead of time, especially if you’re in a rush and want to stop by somewhere quickly.
Many businesses in Germany take a lunch break for an hour or two. They also might not be open on weekends – Sundays are very rarely open.
You may think you already know how it is if you’ve been to another country in Europe. Germany has the most restrictive hours in all of Europe though so you should still be cautious.
#14: Holidays
As you would imagine, Germany has their own set of holidays. In fact, they have a lot more holidays. Before booking your trip to the country of poets and thinkers, find out if there are any coinciding holidays during that timeframe.
You may luck out and there will be lots of parades and celebrations. Most German holidays include closed businesses as well though.
During our Christmas vacation there, we forgot that the day after Christmas is considered a holiday. We only found one restaurant (other than McDonald’s) that was open to eat lunch at. Not to mention there was nobody on the streets. And I mean nobody!
#15: Beds are Not Always as They Seem
It is normal in Germany to push two mattresses together to make one big bed rather than have one big mattress. That’s how my parents’ bed is, but Germany makes their mattresses so well that you can’t tell at all.
If you opt for a more authentic German hotel, you will probably have two mattresses as we did at Hotel Weinbauer. If you don’t want that though, just make sure you book at an American chain or call ahead and ask.
#16: A Smile is More Than a Smile
Germans have a stereotype, right? They are friendly and all, but they are known for being straight to the point. Hence where smiling comes in.
A simple smile in Germany can be interpreted as flirting. So unless you are purposely wanting to flirt, try to avoid giving a big cheesy smile to the store clerk.
#17: Skin is Not Censored
As you may have heard before, Europeans can be very “open” with their bodies. Germany is no exception.
This is especially important for you parents!! Pornography or X-rated magazines may not covered in the stores. Pools and beaches can include being in the nude. And women will breastfeed in public without a cover.
If you plan to hit up a beach while you’re in the country, try to do your research to see if being nude is allowed.
#18: Be Respectful of History
Obviously, Germany has a sketchy past. It doesn’t take away its greatness, but it is something you should be aware of and sensitive to. Germans don’t necessarily want to talk about the Holocaust or any negative aspect of their history. I don’t blame them!
This would be a great time to talk with your children about Germany and its history as well.
Part of being sensitive to their past includes not doing the Hitler sign (arm raised, you know what I mean). If you are caught doing it in public, you could be fined or arrested.
Other than that, I really hope you enjoy your stay in Germany! And remember to check out my Instagram post about how to pay for things when you get there!
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I would love to visit Germany, and will have to keep all of these tips in mind!!
Yes! It is the such a great experience!
While I don’t have kids there was still a ton of great tips! I desperately hope to visit Germany one day and these tips were awesome! Thank you Mariah!
You’re welcome! I hope you can go soon!
Great tips and advice for traveling to Germany with children… traveling anywhere out of the country has its challenges and this is very helpful!
Thank you!
Great tips! One thing we loved is a baby backpack. It was a life saver because American strollers did not work very well in Europe! We ended up ditching it and just using the backpack!
That’s a great tip too! My brother and sister-in-law used a carrier and they really loved it.
Now I know why I always get straight to the point. I am half German.
Haha so are my parents! I get it from them 🙂
I don’t have kids, but would love to visit Germany! Didn’t know you couldn’t turn right on red there haha.
Yep! It would be so hard for me to remember!
My daughter and her family moved to Wiesbaden in 2016, so every time I go overseas, I go through Frankfurt both ways to get in visits. And, I lived there from Nov. 2018 – March 2019.
The buses and trains are extraordinary; you can get nearly anywhere! And – I loooove the Christmas Markets! I sure hope things get under control there soon – just this week, they’re required to wear actual N 95 masks in public!
Oh wow, Wiesbaden is so close to my parents! They definitely have a lot more restrictions in Germany, but I’m glad they’re staying safe! I love the Christmas markets too 🙂
I loved traveling throughout Europe and Germany in particular when I was younger. Can’t wait to someday travel with my kids as well…thank you for sharing these great tips! Made me nostalgic and wish we could go right now! 🙂
Haha I was nostalgic writing about it! I hope we can all go back soon!
I visited Germany as a young teenager with my parents. Luckily we were visiting people who lived there so they could show us the ropes. Your tips are great reminders for things often overlooked.
I love seeing a place like a local! I’m glad you loved your trip!
These are very good tips and some I would not have thought of!
Thank you! I think it’s always best to be prepared 🙂
Great things to consider, hopefully can travel again soon!
I agree!
There goes my dream of driving the autobahn! lol! These are great things to know!
So cool, have yet to make it to Germany. Love seeing such old beautiful architecture.
Great things to know! Should I find myself in Germany…
Wow these are all good things to consider that I wasn’t even aware of. And seeing as I have kids, I’d totally want to know how experience may affect them, too. Thanks!
It’s so crazy to me that nudity is allowed, but the smiling is considered flirting! I try to smile at everyone I make eye contact with. 😬
Haha different places have different customs! Maybe try smiling with your eyes instead 🙂
My brother lived there for years and it was always fun visiting!
I miss Germany! I made sure to start teaching the kids some German well before our trip a couple of years ago! And I am happy to say… they retained it! LOL. I know about the dialects all too well… all I have to do is open my mouth, and people immediately know what part of Germany I am from! AND I’m not even a native! LOL
Haha that’s so funny! Where did you learn German?
Great tips and good to know! Thanks!
You’re welcome!
These are great tips. Definitely some things I would have never thought about.
Thank you!
Great tips!
Thanks!
Germany is on our travel list. Will definitely save all these tips. Thanks!
Thank you! I hope you have a great time!
These are such great tips! It’s so important to know some of the customs of a culture before visiting!
I totally agree!
Wonderful, practical tips! Thanks for sharing them!
Thank you!
Wow…thanks for sharing these tips! It’s so important that Americans not go into other countries expecting it to be just like our country. We have to be respectful of their culture and customs.
I couldn’t agree more! Learning about different cultures is what I love about traveling!
Those are great tips! I love Germany. Visiting the Neuschwanstein Castle was my dream since I was 16 years old. Me and my Husband were able to travel to Germany for my work in 2016 and of course we had to visit the Castle and this is where he proposed.
Yay! I’m so happy you could finally make it, and what a great proposal! Congrats 🙂
This was absolutely fascinating to read! Wonderful trips. The smiling thing was especially interesting. I’m a smiler – woops, I’ll have to be careful!
Haha I probably “flirted” with a lot of people!
These are great tips! I could not imagine going that far with kids. But it looks amazing!
It is!
All good tips! I think it’s important and respectful to know at least a little bit of the language wherever you travel. That’s great that your kids got to experience Germany!
I agree! And I look forward to taking them all back!
Very interesting info! I appreciate your explanation of what’s “normal” in everyday Germany!
Thank you!
Great list! One of my grandsons wants to go to Germany for his high school graduation present. This is good info to know.
We went there for my brother’s graduation trip! It was incredible!
I loved traveling to Germany as a kid! Now as a mom (and librarian) one tip I have is to pick books for kids to read before, while (and even after!) traveling. Here are a few good books to get them started learning and getting excited about traveling to Germany: http://storybooklists.com/country/storybooks-with-germany/
Thanks for the recommendations!